I think it's fair to say that there comes a point where you just kinda say, 'bored' of all of them. Bored of guys who don't know what they want. Bored of men in general. Bored of repetitive dates, repetitive behaviours, bored of investing my time, energy and money.
That's an honest admission. I have the memory of an elephant. I remember a lot.
With those memories, I have plenty to write about, plenty to learn from and plenty of time for me, plenty of experienced advice to give, and time for a select few.
We get older, we care less for drama, time wasters, games, BS, indecision. We care for our own well being and refuse to have this jeopardised by anyone.
So. My father had his wish. No nuptials to have to pay for. Not in our family. I congratulate him on this and on how I have realised that I have dodged many bullets. Many potential disasters.
I now have a very peaceful world and I have drawn back my generosity to others, who simply do not deserve it. Self-care. Invest in yourself and you cannot go wrong.
In the wise words of my old friend Lee, "I've never been happier, more contented or rich since I have been single". Drama-free life. Self investment. It works.
And...the best bit is...I'm quite happy and have no issues with my status. Some of the best people are single. Whatever everyone else is up to is none of my business and I absolutely admire people who are in good partnerships. It's a lot of hard work to keep it together. I admire that. I am happy to see others happy. I would rather be single than be in an unhealthy relationship, everyday of the week. There are not many healthy people out there. Stay single, stay healthy.
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